You wrote this article last year didn't you? I remember reading this exact thing and commenting how I disagreed with you on it especially the "we like to pretend we are monogamous" wording of the last paragraph.

As a woman, I think it's pretty damn obvious why we moan. It's because the feeling is extremely intense and when you're being penetrated forcefully, it shakes your body to the core including the diaphragm. I don't make these sounds when experiencing oral sex or masturbation, it's penetration specifically.

But I'm pretty sure how penetration actually FEELS is a huge part of it. It's certainly not a "come and get me" call to other males.