You seem to be under the impression that I'm a guy. I'm not. I'm a woman.

Calling oral sex "a blow job" or "head" is like calling a penis a "cock". It's just slang. There's nothing inherently insulting about it.

If you want to think of your vagina as a "sacred love cavern" and your partner's penis as "the phallus of desire" or something, by all means. But your assumptions about me just over being less precious with words than you, is quite funny.

I've had transcendent mystical sex. I even wrote about it on my blog. I've also had primal animalistic sex. I've had sex where we both were laughing and making Rick and Morty references to each other. All with the same person. Sex doesn't have to be just experienced one way for it to be respectful, consensual, pleasurable and loving.