Why would you just assume that Hermes? Assuming the most strawman interpretation? You're a smart guy, I've read your work. It's pretty nuanced.

And yet here you just make assumptions without any justification.

Nobody was talking about violence against men being OK. If you've watched Outlander the most horrific rape scene has a male victim, and it's quite possibly the most horrifying scene I've ever seen. Made me sick for days afterwards.