What you want, is to develop friendships with men. As in, not “dating" but hanging out, as friends, that may or may not develop into something more. “Dating" is very artificial. When really the best relationships are also FRIENDSHIPS at their core.

Take the pressure off yourself, and start meeting men for friendship. Message them about whatever you’re passionate about. Bond over something other than loneliness or lust. Then if it organically becomes intimate, yay. And if it doesn’t, you’ve got a new friend, yay.

This is how I met my partner.