What grates me about this article is the "we" pronoun. You don't speak for me. You don't like morning sex, OK that's between you and your partner. You don't need to pontificate "men you've been doing it wrong" how about letting people communicate in their relationships what they like or don't like? This is just meanspirited clickbait. Especially the title. I'm sorry that your relationship is such that you feel your husband hugging your from behind while he has morning wood is gross. But "intimacy and connection" and "sex" don't have to be exclusive? And someone hugging you while they have a boner is also fine? It doesn't have to lead to sex?? Ugh. You do you but this article is very much a vibe of "women biologically hate morning sex and men are dirty horndogs who pretend to hug us when they just want to get their end wet".