Well said Phoenix. It's difficult sometimes to be able to properly manage one's emotional energy, especially if you have lots of people who you like, but you have limited time and energy. I sometimes feel guilty about not being able to message people enough (including you btw) but it's literally just that I have: a busy job, an introverted nature, a partner, 2 friends and a family member I message on an almost daily basis, fatigue due to iron deficiency, a need to recharge with quiet time etc. My time remaining is kinda limited and I want to spread it around, which means that certain people who I value I just can't talk to super often, but it doesn't mean I don't value them! <3