Well said! I have felt this for quite some time, seeing the plethora of articles (especially on Medium) that seem to diagnose every flawed relationship as being “signs of a narcissist”. To the point where people in normal, healthy relationships can gaslight themselves into thinking “what if I’m in the love bombing phase of the narcissistic cycle” and try and look for “signs” that their partner is a narcissist (which is confirmation bias) because god forbid people be passionately and idealistically in love.