This whole account appears to be a sockpuppet trying to make liberals look bad. I mean "DEI director" and "intersectional advocate" and "neurodivergent" - and then writes articles about how gold digging is the most empowering choice and writing bait designed to make people angry.

On the off chance it IS real - this is awful advice.

Talking about an intimate detail like that with friends is one thing (I assume she did so in a complimentary manner in the sense of "it's not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean" way). But her friends were absolutely 100% in the wrong for the cruel joke. The boyfriend was in the right to be upset. And the girlfriend should have stood up to her friends. No it wasn't on him to confront HER friends. It was on her because she had the relationship with them.

The fact that the girlfriend not only did not stand up to her nasty friends but then diminished her boyfriend's feelings shows she's not a caring person and I hope he does break up with her.

But you - you're the nastiest of them all. What a lot of tosh you're spouting about him having "small dick energy" and being an "angry little man" - he didn't have a small dick, he was average sized, and besides he's allowed to be angry about something like this.

You make all sorts of assumptions about him being controlling, him being abusive, him "saying worse about her to his friends". What a cynical person you are.

Finally, talking about a "bigger toy to play with" implies that men are just objects to be used, rather than, you know - people with feelings. Shows the kind of relationship you believe in.

This must be engagement bait because I can't imagine anyone genuinely giving this advice under the guise of "relationship guru".