This man's list of things he finds contemptable:

- being a virgin

- being a "beta"

- being shy

- being "unattractive"

- using porn

- playing video games

- not being rich

- eating sugar

- having more than 8% body fat

- treating people less attractive differently from people more attractive (ironic because he does exactly the same thing yet people doing that to him "fuels his misanthropy")

- people in general (misanthropy means hatred of people)

- being 400lbs

- being socially awkward

- being "not socially valuable"

- being a "degenerate"

- eating Doritos

- living in a basement

- being feminist

- selling dating advice to women

- having birth deformities

- being mediocre

- getting in touch with the "inner child"

- having high estrogen if you're a man

- having a "value problem"

- being autistic

Harris you are absolutely right that this guy's self hatred and hatred of others is what's causing his lack of success. It's like he's constantly judging everything around him. And because he's doing that he's also judging himself. According to him, 90% of men are "low value" and I am sure he feels the same way about women. I imagine a conversation with him would end up with him ranting about whatever he finds annoying or contemptible, and that gets old real fast. Doesn't matter how good you look or how much money you make if you're a relentlessly unpleasant person to be around.

That said as you say, he can of course turn things around. But he needs to not think therapy or changving his attitude is "weak" or "low T".