This is me.

I don’t like how some of your article is implying people who don’t wax are “neglecting themselves", seems quite judgemental. What about the fact that hair is completely natural and hygienic? In fact it can be better for the skin and the vagina to leave your pubic hair.

So yeah, I only occasionally trim my pubes and leg hair. I’m not bothered about my hair. Neither is my partner. Natural is sexy. Confidence in one’s natural body is also sexy.

Also, not wanting unnecessary pain in a non-sexual setting doesn’t mean one doesn’t enjoy pain in a sexual setting.

I like having my hair pulled, being bitten, slapped on the butt, being scratched in the heat of passion. Do I like stubbing my toe? Getting a paper cut? Accidentally getting my fingers slammed in a door? Of course not. It’s the same with waxing. Candle wax can be sexy but waxing body hair at a salon is not.