…ant to do the dishes“ that’s a relationship conflict cliche? That’s precisely what’s going on here. You aren’t doing the household chores or taking care of the baby to make things easier on your wife, to share the load and also to give her time to relax, eat or even just have 30 minutes to herself, you’re doing it with the expectation that it’ll be rewarded with orgasms. That’s not what she needs, it’s not what she wants and it’s not helping her or you. It just reaffirms that feeling of your impatience and not seeing her quite so much as a person who…
