This is absolutely untrue and a lie that your lack of self esteem is telling you. People may initially be drawn by the “sexy" image you portray to first meet you, to spark initial attraction, but in a relationship people will find your energy, your way of being, your mannerisms, your movements and your intelligence to be sexy.

The fact that you don’t feel any of that is good enough isn’t a sign that how you’re feeling is the truth.