There's no part of me that "hates men" in general. Sorry. :P

Being upset about systemic oppression, or being angry at particular shittty men or systems that let shitty abusive people (often men) get away with their bad behaviour, that's not the same as "hating men".

And from a psychological perspective, the average person who is attacked with a message "I hate you" is not going to be in a mindset to think about the nuanced ways that their actions might contribute to societal oppression. They will feel a personal attack. This would happen to you too.