Taoism also is where the yin yang symbol comes from. The yin yang is a unity, made up of two sides that both contain part of each other. It's a visual metaphor for the paradox of being - that seemingly binary and opposing forces are at the same time one. So really masculinity and femininity are just ways of thinking. In general the Divine Masculine and Feminine just means "the divine you". We all contain the urges to do and to be, to be strong and be passive, to be assertive and surrendering. In differing degrees. So don't get too hung up on whether or not you're being "feminine enough", your gender is yours and can be as flexible as you want. It's not a prison. It's just a word after all. A concept. A feeling. It's malleable.