Some therapists are so bad at their jobs. My first therapist was a stinker, who told me:

- "You should break up with your partner" (because he's in prison, not her decision to make)

- "You should stop having weed, drugs are ALWAYS bad"

- "let me tell you about how I used to smoke meth..." *proceeded to go on a 20 minute monologue about her experiences with drugs and how she has ADHD so meth calmed her down*

Basically she was judgemental, incompetent and also talked more than she listened. I stopped going to her and found a MUCH better therapist.