Sis I am a female/woman. And I reiterate, this attitude is a warped lens that only sees what you expect to see and filters out everything that doesn’t fit your narrative. Nothing I say is going to convince you clearly, but I hope you one day find peace and stop feeling so afraid in this world. Yes evil exists, oppression exists, sexism exists, but it is NOT as all pervasive as you think. Not by a long shot.