OK so I orgasm very easily via masturbation. I can orgasm in less than 60 seconds, if I want. I've had thousands of orgasms via masturbation. They're wonderful.
That said, I enjoy sex more than masturbation. Even though what I feel is not the same as the kind of clitoral orgasm I get from masturbation.
Is it a different kind of orgasm? Possibly. Is it sexual pleasure that technically isn't an orgasm? Possibly. Point is I enjoy it. And the pleasure is in a different part of the body than the clitoris (more full bodied, in the uterus spasms).
I think it doesn't matter what we call it. Either we enjoy sex or we don't.