Nothing wrong with wanting to have sex. I have a high libido myself.

But you have other options than cheating. When you're cheating you're the villain, not the victim. And you can't have your "happily ever after" with either of your partners.

Options where you could get your sexual needs met while being honest include:

- couples therapy

- polyamory (ethical non-monogamy)

- separating/divorcing

In fact, cheating is something that will go against you in a divorce, if your husband ever finds out, you will get a worse settlement and a worse deal regarding custody. It's better to separate before it comes to light. Because he will find out eventually. And you can't claim the moral high ground if he does.