Not sure you’re using the word cis correctly. Cis means your gender identity is the same as what you were assigned at birth.

In the context of your piece I think you mean straight. ☺

But in terms of the actual piece, it sounds like you’re on the bisexual spectrum. And that’s great! I feel similarly. It doesn’t negate the intensity of soulmate love you have with your husband.

Indeed sometimes I think I might like to explore polyamory with a woman. Not in a unicorn hunting way, but just if I met a “really cool chick” as you put it. Love comes in many forms. You may not have another soulmate love, but there are many other types out there.

Of course, you shouldn’t do polyamory if you’re not into that.

It’s nice that the openness about sexuality has led to more and more people exploring their feelings though!