It seems you cruise articles just to find excuses to spray your misandry everywhere. Dr Rodman Whiten was talking about in loving relationships where people have sex in order to foster intimacy.

If you are a woman who (crucially) WANTS to have good sex with a man, and you learned to use a vibrator as your sole means of getting off before you were even in a relationship, it can help to teach your partner how to pleasure you in other ways as well.

From every comment I've ever seen from you, you despise men and would never ever ever have sex with them willingly. Which is valid for you. But why do you then comment on every post that isn't aimed at you?

This article is not for you, it's for women in relationships with men who want to be closer and have healthier sex lives.

Not everything has to be for and about you and your hatred for men.