Indeed. I think it's crucial to remember that abusers are not unique categories of human. We all have the capacity to abuse. It is not for a victim of abuse to have to heal or forgive the abuser, but for those of us who were not personally affected, we should have compassion and help abusive people to heal. There are many mental health conditions that lead to abusive behaviour (BPD and narcissistic personality disorder that come to mind), and it also often intersects with CPTSD.