In my experience, you can’t really have sex on MDMA. The reason being, because all sensations all over the body are so intense that it’s hard to focus on the genitals specifically. Instead you feel like your hands, your feet, face, body etc are hyper sensitive and any kind of texture is fascinating.

Sex on weed is hands down the best sex I’ve ever had from a physical pleasure standpoint. It really does become a “time has no meaning” kind of thing. When I did it with my partner it felt like it went on forever (in the best way) until suddenly I noticed that there was dawn light coming through the cracks in the blinds. We must have made love all night. And it felt at times like we were floating in space, that there was no sensation of up or down, and that we were spinning in a galaxy together. Amazing.

The other drug that can be amazing for sex is LSD. On the comedown. At different stages of the trip sex will be the farthest thing from your mind, but if you are with someone you love, it can lead to experiences like feeling you and your lover are mirrored in parallel universes, and in entities from the cellular bacteria to animals to humans to gods, all at once, coming together. A merging of the spiritual and the sexual. By far the most intense spiritual experience I’ve ever had, I cried at the overwhelming beauty of it.

So I would say — for physical pleasure, weed is the best aphrodisiac. For spiritual and emotional connection, LSD is the best.

This is only from my limited personal experience, do not do anything illegal, and stay safe. All drugs can be dangerous.