I’m saying that when her husband finds out about her cheating, she will have less leverage in the divorce for settlements and custody, and that her making an article justifying cheating as her husband’s fault is her taking the moral high ground and playing the victim. Whereas she could have actually had the moral high ground, and had sex, through something like ethical nonmonogamy.

And yeah, being honest to your partner IS better than being dishonest. Yeah I would say I’m morally superior than someone who cheats. Fight me “dear”. 🙄