I'm happy for you Marcus! I'm so glad that you and Libby have found each other, and that Sitara is not the only love you're able to experience in this lifetime. <3

I don't think I have the same view on what soulmates and "heavenmates" are as you, but that's OK. My view of a "soulmate" is not someone that's destined for you, but that someone can be awakened to soulmate status by mutual awareness depending on the stage of life they are in and where they are on their journey. (And there is potential for more than one soulmate in a life). For example my soulmate and I were friends for over five years and even were in love before we realised that we were soulmates. I believe this was because we weren't ready in our journeys before then. :) I also believe that if we had made different choices during our relationship, our "soulmate" connection could have eroded and become corrupted. Just because we're soulmates doesn't mean we don't have to constantly be growing our relationship and trying to make it better and better, because otherwise entropy will erode it. It's similar with enlightenment. Enlightenment isn't a static state, but a realisation that can be forgotten and lost, if one doesn't work to maintain it.

Just my opinion. Blessings to you, Sitara and Libby <3