I'm a high libido woman, in a monogamous relationship.

You say snarkily "high libido women don't walk around aroused all day" - yeah I would imagine nobody walks around aroused ALL day unless they have PSAD. I don't know any high libido women who would define "high libido" as meaning "being physically aroused 24/7".

When I say I'm high libido I mean the following:

- if my partner is not around, I would still want to masturbate at least once a day if not more - I have always been like this ever since puberty

- having sex is to me, the most pleasurable physical activity (ecstatic dance coming second) so ideally I'd want to do it every day - however because I'm also demisexual I don't want to have sex with random people but only someone I love, if I can't have sex with someone I love then I'll masturbate

- I get aroused at random times, for example sometimes I'll feel physically aroused and want to rub one out so that I won't be distracted by the sexual arousal. This is not something unique to being in a relationship, I have felt this way ever since puberty (ie more than half my life)

- if I have certain kinds of sexual fantasies I can feel handsfree "womb clench" waves of sexual pleasure and so sometimes I will do this at random times and places (because it's not able to be seen by anyone else that this is what I'm doing as it's purely mental and internal)

I would say my libido is partly spontaneous and partly responsive. Of course I'll get more aroused if my partner engages in foreplay. And sometimes if I'm stressed for example with work, I won't have the desire for sex for several days. But that's kind of rare.

No I don't have bipolar disorder.