If you think "we're all feeling this" (I guess you mean all women), you're wrong. And also, if your attitude is to just go on about how much hatred you feel for men, how do you expect men to respond? Except with defensiveness?

If it was a relationship between a single man and a single woman, and you went to your partner with "I hate you, because of X Y Z" is that really going to lead to positive change? Of course not. It leads to defensiveness, walls up to the validity of your criticisms. If that would happen one on one to an individual why would you expect a different result with a group of men? With millions of men? Of course the result would be similar.