If you look at why people support Depp now, you'll see why. It's not because of patriarchy. It's because of the mountain of evidence that shows Heard AT THE VERY LEAST abused Depp "too", if not that she was the only abuser (or main abuser) in the relationship.
I used to be on Heard's side, but recently changed my mind after hearing her audio recordings where she literally admits to "hitting" Depp while he tries to get away, and where she mocks him saying "oh what are you going to say, I Johnny Depp, a white man, am a victim of domestic abuse? Go ahead and try that, see who will believe you".