I guess it all depends on what you consider to be “extremes”. Eccentricity, vulnerability etc — if people don’t like that, fuck them.

But if by extremes you mean abusive, controlling behaviour, then no matter how much you wrap it up in a nice little explanation of “being a rebel” you aren’t justified.

I just find it interesting how you mention you live by extremes and that people don’t like being in a relationship with you, and some people might call you NPD or BPD — and you don’t mention what the “extreme” behaviour you engage in actually is.

What have you done that’s so extreme?

As someone who was abused by a BPD person, I don’t buy that “extreme” behaviour is automatically good just because it’s rebelling against capitalism.