I don't post about my relationship online. It's because it's not a product for the world. I don't want the approval of strangers for it.

And I talk about my partner constantly on DM to my real life friends.

I'm not ashamed. I just don't post much on social media any more. And I don't want to objectify the most important parts of my life. I would never want how my relationship appears online to become more important than how it actually is in real life.

Not everyone is the same. And actually posting too much about your relationship online is a red flag.