I don't know if my comments are considered "unsolicited advice" for saying things like "you're not unloveable, and the feeling that nothing can ever improve is more likely to be depression than based in objective reality". It's kind of hard to know what you consider to be "unsolicited advice" because you sometimes write in a way that seems to be asking rhetorical questions to the reader, like asking whether there are any good men out there, or how people find hope in dark times etc. And in your comments there normally ARE lots of people validating you, sympathising with you and offering their perspectives. And I know you have liked some of my comments before. But it seems like this article is calling out responses to your recent hag article which I did comment on.

I suppose if I get triggered by anything, it's by people who are despairing when I believe that they don't have to feel despair. It makes me want to help them. Because I feel despair is the worst emotion, the emotion that doesn't lead to growth but to a self-fulfilling spiral of misery and bleakness. And sometimes your articles do seem despairing. Not all of them. But when you say things like "I know I will never be loved again" it sounds like despair and I guess that makes me want to help. Why do I want to help? Because I want to help all people in the world become happier. And because the things you write remind me of a friend I have who feels similarly who I want to help but can't.

Anyway if you would like me to stop commenting or to only comment when I am in complete agreement to your article, let me know. Feel free to mute me if you need to, for your mental health.