I don’t. I have never felt this way. I just know I’m a woman because I feel like “me” and people have told me the experience of “being me” is what “being a woman” apparently feels like. But I have no little voice telling me what I am. I just know what it’s like to be in this body, and be treated as a woman by society, and act as a woman in a way society recognises, which in some ways is non conforming and some ways is not.