I don't agree with the whole "waiting more than 3 dates to have sex is a red flag and any man with a high libido and a good self esteem will not tolerate this and will leave you".

I'm a highly sexual person but I'm demisexual, meaning that I need to feel a strong emotional connection to want to have sex. But if I do, I will want to have sex all the time.

According to you, someone like me is worthless to a high libido or high self esteem man.

Thankfully I'm in a relationship but this is very arbitrary and judgemental advice.