I actually think that we should stop focusing on making blanket statements about "all orgasms are X" and "all sexual pleasure women feel are caused by the clitoris ONLY".

I don't think it's terribly valuable to tell men "trust this article over communicating with your partner about what feels good".

Every body is different after all. Good sex requires empathy and communication.

A good lover won't get their tips from reading an article saying "only the clitoris matters to women". They will spend more time actually asking their partner what they like.

I don't think "whataboutism" is a harmful thing in this case as it comes FROM A WOMAN talking about her own experiences. To tell me I can't disagree with "only clitoris matters" like it's somehow harming the sisterhood? Please.