Huh? Have you ever watched a movie where the male and female lead are both stars? Or a porn video where both actors are stars?

Having a high libido as a woman, and wanting to share your fantasies with your love and listen to his fantasies and roleplay together, does not equal being narcissistic "all about me" in the bedroom. It can 100% be reciprocal. Especially if you consider sex to be a love language which I know you do and I do as well.

Sex as a love language with a high libido woman who also has it as a love language, is not going to be like a porn star, it's going to be better because it's intimate, it's loving, and yet it's also intense, imaginative and creative. That can absolutely be reciprocal. It just requires that both partners are on the same page.

Have you ever had mystic sex where both feel as though you become one being? Because I have. That's not "only one star, I'm the star" mentality. There is no separation. We are Shiva and Shakti. If anything "there is one star, we are both that star, together".