you…h of the day when you could get back to something close to the sort of sex you were used to having. De-prioritizing PIV and expanding your definition of sex to include other forms of play that don’t include penetration would be a big one; you’d likely have had more “yes’” if you weren’t looking for vaginal intercourse and were cooler with an occasional masturbatory assist, even if it wasn’t happening on the frequency you’d prefer.
