Honestly I find it hard to care about the Queen's death. She was a coloniser and she didn't do anything positive for my country. She also shielded her pedophile son from legal consequences from his friendship with Epstein. To mourn for someone who was born into wealth and power, who died peacefully at an age most would only dream of, who didn't do anything positive for me and instead negatively affected millions of people - makes no sense.
You say "you do not have the right to impede the emotional healing journey of anyone else" - but actually it's the royalists that are shouting down everyone who has any negative word to say about the queen. Someone yelled at Prince Andrew "you're a sick old man" and he was ARRESTED. For saying something true. Because it offended the royals. It wasn't even about the Queen as a person, it was about the institution of the monarchy, their tax payer funded lifestyle, and the sycophantic performative grief that glosses over anything bad that family has done.