Honestly I feel like this is how I am? Because I strongly feel that the only point of reference I have for how I feel is "how I feel as an individual". I have absolutely no idea if what I feel inside is even "gender". I just know what it feels like to be me. And I enjoy having a female body, and I like this culture's options for feminine presentation, because they're more flamboyant and creative than typical masculine presentation, and thus I present feminine too. But do I have a "binary identity"? Honestly I have no idea. I have no gender dysphoria, which is why I identify as cis. I am happy to have a female body and dress in typically defined female attire. But I also wouldn't care if someone called me a different pronoun so long as they *understood me* as a person. Also if I'd lived in a culture or age where men were the more flamboyantly dressing ones maybe I would have identified as masculine back then? Who knows.

I don't know if how I feel is how some nonbinary people feel, or if it's how cis people feel. Or maybe no one feels like me, because we only feel like individuals and it's just our attempts with language to try and describe how it feels to others?