Great story Toni! I am a 30 year old woman with big breasts (Australian size 8H). Last time I was in Australia I spent about $300 on some nice bras. I wanted some ones that would fit me properly and also look nice in a V neck if a glimpse of them was seen. I got a red, a black, and a teal bra. The teal one is less well fitting because it is a plunge bra designed not to be seen even in a very deep V neck. I do get some overspillage with that. But the black and red bras are both perfectly comfortable and sexy.

I am interested to hear about your hatred for underwire though. Right now I'm wearing my red bra and it has underwire. But it doesn't poke me. I don't even feel it.

I find underwire bras are more supportive for me than ones without. The pure elastic ones stretch over time and become unsupportive.

I would love to hear your recommendations for non-wire supportive bras for big breasts, because I need some for visiting my husband in prison, and so far the ones that I have that are not wired become misshapen over time and it means the bottoms of my breasts I can feel them resting against my skin, which I don't like the sensation of.