Great article. I'm so sorry that you are treated as less desirable for your race. In my opinion, Asian men are gorgeous, my fiance is part-Asian, and I think people are fools who don't see how sexy you guys can be.
I have hope that with the popularisation of more Chinese and South Asian films in the West, as well as the appropriately-casted live-action adaptations of animes like Netflix's Avatar The Last Airbender, that there will be a shift soon in Western perceptions of Asian masculinity. We need young people changing their perception, and that will carry forth into the future generations.