Fun question for you to think about - is there really a difference between "what our nature is" and "how we behave"? How you express yourself, is who you are. Of course there are people who express themselves differently from what they want to do on the inside. But is their "true" self the inner self, or the performed self? Or is their true self, the conflicted self (containing the inner and the outer)? That then becomes less conflicted as they align their inner desires with their outward expression?