Cause really, the majority of media doesn’t have a storyline of men and boys being inferior. Historically it’s been the other way around.
Some very famous pieces of media that have male heroes:
Harry Potter
The Lord of the Rings/The Hobbit
Almost every single Marvel movie except Captain Marvel
The original Star Wars trilogy
Almost every single DC movie except Wonder Woman and Birds of Prey
Indiana Jones
Etc
All movies I saw as a kid with my brothers and strangely it didn’t make me feel as a girl that I couldn’t be successful.
For younger kids:
Ben 10
Paw Patrol
Pokemon
Yugioh
Avatar the Last Airbender
Etc
These are all EXTREMELY famous stories I picked from the top of my head. In fact they are pretty much THE MOST POPULAR franchises today. All with awesome male protagonists who are heroes.
So if your kids are seeing nothing but stories about boys being in the wrong and girls being perfect, they’re definitely missing out on the majority of media lol.