BTW when I said "Asian men are gorgeous" I hope I didn't come across as fetishising, all races have attractive men, I just happen to have a lot of exposure to Asian people in my country and specific life experiences, which meant I felt able to comment on it. I don't pursue people for being Asian, it just so happens that I know and have met many, who happened to be attractive, and I feel I was more able to see their attractiveness because of my multicultural experiences, than people who grew up in a white "bubble".