Another brilliant nuanced take by Cathy Young! Thank you!
I don't think Toobin was predatory in any way. And I think Giuliani was being entrapped. Were they both idiots? Sure.
But violating? No.
For example, when I've been working from home, I do sometimes get turned on (not by my colleagues) but just by random things, and after a Zoom call I have been known to take a break and masturbate (one of the perks of working from home). Not on camera of course. But I would assume it is quite common. Even more so for men. I feel there is a bit of "thou dost protest too much" going on here with some of the Twitter mob.