Also, women are perfectly capable of giving themselves orgasms! I have had countless orgasms in my time. All self-given. That's why I'm able to be sexually happy in a long distance relationship with my husband, because I meet my own sexual needs.

I only want to have sex with someone else if it's going to provide me something more than what masturbation can. Emotional connection with someone I love. And ideally more pleasure than I can already give myself.