Agreed. My mother's control in the name of "protection" extended to her not allowing me to go places by myself in broad daylight at the age of 22, making my dad sit with me when I went to a movie at night WITH MY ADULT FRIENDS when I was 21, claiming me walking 12 steps ahead of her in a busy area when we were with the family was putting me in danger of being raped etc. It made me feel like she believed I was so weak.