A couple of things — first since you guys are so good at all the other non-intercourse aspects of sex, maybe involving more foreplay with the sex will help? Clearly you’re amazing at things like blowjobs, handjobs and I would hope your husband is equally amazing at getting you off in different ways. Just because you can now have intercourse doesn’t mean that has to be the only sexy thing you do now :)

Also — you can have sex in many different moods. Sometimes it will be loving and almost sacred, sometimes it will be quirky and filled with laughter.

The weirdest thing I ever did with my partner was make Rick and Morty references during sex. Strangely, it didn’t ruin the moment.

Your husband loves your quirkiness. I’m sure he doesn’t find you any less sexy for it.